Everyone experiences the loss of a loved one as part of life. Though it is a part of life, it can often be a difficult one to know how to navigate for those directly and indirectly affected by such losses. Others losses can remind us of our own recent or distant losses. You may be afraid to say “the wrong thing”; however if you stop and think about it, is there a “wrong” way to show and express your sympathy for ones loss? Take this opportunity to really stop and think…
Now, in thinking about someones loss try and challenge yourself to wonder what you would want and need from a friend, co-worker, or family member if you were the one closely affected by the death.
Do you want someone to be with you?
Do you need some space and time to reflect?
Do you need to not think about making dinner for the next week?
Do you want a hug and a good cry?
It is important to remember everyone grieves differently, in our own way and own time. It can be helpful to keep in mind that even though some time may have passed, the loss is still very real and present for that person. Acknowledgement of this can be so meaningful; having a witness to ones grief (whether it be a therapist or friend) can really offer the feeling of not being so alone.
If you have having a difficult time with a recent or previous loss, and want some support working through it, feel free to call our office at 240-274-5680 or email us at AnotherLook@HealingLLC.com to start getting the help you are looking for.
Take Good Care,
Amy Hooper, LCSW-C, CEAP
Director, Another Look at Healing, LLC
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